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He says: A Standard Banquet Package (Part IV)

Finishing soon… 2 more posts… ahhhhh…

10. Wedding fanfare with misty effect (dry ice effect) for the bride and groom’s march in

Another standard stuff… before the wedding march in nowadays, you will see a few of the poor guy waiters getting ready the dry ice. As the blissfully married couple marches in, the dry ice has become a staple, with the smoky feel. Frankly, it is something that is not too important but you can’t do without. Even if you don’t find this in your package, it should still be included one way or another. But check just in case (like any kiasu Singaporean).

11. Corkage charge waived (or a special charge is indicated)

This, my friend, is a key thing to bargain for. And it can be the main differentiator between the various hotels. I must put a ***** for the importance of this. If this is not handled properly, it can burn a big hole in your pocket.

What are corkage charges?

For any wine / liquor you buy from the outside (not from the hotel itself), the hotel can and will impose a corkage charge just for opening the bottle and helping you serve it. I am not a alcohol person and so are most of our friends and relatives. But if you know that there are a substantial number of people taking liquor or wine, you got to look into this.

On weekdays, hotel normally provides free flow of beer, and on weekends it can be free flow or by barrels. On weekend, a free barrel is often given. Unless it is free flow, it is NOT recommended to introduce beer during the cocktail section. It will result in lots of wastage (half drank glasses everywhere) and the guests may be drunk even before they eat. Normally if they have it with the food, they will tend to drink less as the food will occupy a fair portion of their tummy. If you do not have free flow of beer, pray that you will not exceed the free barrel they give you. You should have one brother in charge of the beverages, to make the decision of whether to open one more barrel when the time comes (700++ per barrel is not cheap!!!).

As we move to the newer generation of people, the popularity of wine is now >>> beer (an assumption here, may not be true for all cases). So wine is more important. I am not particular about wine, so I can use the hotel’s wine. However, after using up the free bottle of wine per table, it is decision time. Do you continue drinking the hotel’s wine or use your own outside resources. Here’s the mathematical breakdown:

A = Hotel Wine = 1 straight hotel cost

B = Outside Wine = 1 outside source cost + hotel corkage charge (C)

Normally, outside wine cost < hotel wine. But the corkage charge can be a biggie…

If B > A, then it is only wise to use the hotel wine. Here’s where bargaining comes into play. You got to lower down C to the lowest value possible.  Ideal value of C = 0, zero, nil, ko-nok! So bargain with the coordinator for the lowest C you can get, ideally no corkage charge. Because once C = 0, B << A and your decision becomes a no-brainer, take B!!!

If the hotel insists on having a high corkage charge, your A >> B, then there is no real choice actually… take the hotel wine.

At the end of the day, make sure you get the liquor you want, look at your guest’s preferences and allocate your finances wisely. No point wasting money on an extra barrel of beer, or too little corkage waiver..

My word of wisdom for all GTB: Think about it, you are paying for the liquor that people will sabo you with. If you are not a drinker, why sabo yourself with your own money?

 

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She says: Decoration Ideas for Outdoor (Part II).. We found our outdoor venue!

After spending a day “Treasure-Hunting” for our outdoor wedding venue, we came across a wonderful, secluded, un-commercialized, shady place. It was one of those moments, when your expectation isn’t high, but you were surprised by the outcome. When I visited the place, I knew we found the ONE place I’ve been looking for.. I never heard of it, not even in any of our list. After being disappointed by the no. 1 in our list,  ”Raffles House” (*That’s it???Is that the tree we saw in the picture???So smalll?????*), we are very pleased when we went to this venue. I love the ol’ and cozy feeling the place evoked.  We’ll keep it secret! It’s a surprise!

The hint: it’s still in town area..and have a huge old raintree which is perfect for reciting our vows and very affordable!

The best part I have carte blanche to execute tons of ideas from my mind.. I’ll share some with you.

10_tree

outdoor lighting

outdoor_things

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He says: A Standard Banquet Package (Part III)

Here I go again…

6. Complimentary invitations cards for up to 70% of confirmed attendance

Due to Hellen’s new business venture of doing wedding invitation (Pemberley Paperie), we did not consider using the hotel’s standard invitation at all. Being a designer, she is very passionate about having an individualised invitation, and she is into letter-pressed type of invitations right now. Since this business venture is at the infancy stage, ours would be a great sample for future couples. Therefore for us, we traded the invitations for other things.

7. Complimentary cars passes for guests based on 20 – 30% of confirmed attendance

How important this is depends on your crowd. Frankly, not a lot of our friends drive, so it is of low priority.

8. Wedding decorations of stage backdrops

9. Floral centrepieces for all dining tables

I classify the above 2 items under “Wedding Decorations”. From the various pictures Hellen posted before, you can see that she is also very particular about the decorations of the place, including the dining tables. We had a good idea of what Conrad provided and because of what Hellen envisions on the actual day, she suggested new things to be added. The additional colours and flowers could result in money top-up so budget-conscious couples should take note of that.

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She says: Fail to plan, plan to fail.. I love planning!

I love planning my own wedding. I can toy around with ideas and inspiration that I see on the blog or magazines. While some girls have wedding dream when they were little, I don’t recall to have any of it. But that doesn’t stop me from wanting it to be wonderful and beautiful. Having a knack in design also adds fuel to my preparation. Early this year,  my best friend, Katryn (also my Maid of Honor) and another friend, Ricadonna and I, started a wedding invitation line, called Pemberley Paperie.

Both me and Katryn share the same passion in stationery and invitation, especially American style. So this wedding allows me to channel my interest in stationeries and decoration too. I don’t find it a chore to look for venue, think about the decoration, look for THE Gown, veil and stuffs. I love it! Both my fiance and I make it a point that we will enjoy this journey together. We want to share this wonderful occasion with our loved ones and also to represent ourselves, our taste and our choices. I’m so blessed to have a wonderful supportive and fun husband-to-be. Weiqiang is as excited as I am in many ways. He is not always that excited, especially in budgeting part *haha* but he made conscious effort to stay positive. True enough, financial blessing comes time after time to add to our wedding budget.

We are in the mood to plan for our venue and decoration. When we scout for places, we are looking for the WOW factor. We always ask ourselves this, does this place or photographer wow us?. It might not wow others, but as long as it wows us, we will go for it. Inspiration moves me. Website like http://www.snippetandink.blogspot.com or http://www.weddingbee.com, http://www.theknot.com became a daily routine for me, on my spare time of course… Sometimes I need to step aside from it, but I quickly turn to my DIY Wedding book I bought from one of my favorite shop, Woodwould@Cathay, Dhoby Ghaut.

DIYwedding

Wedding is once a a lifetime so I want to enjoy every part of it!

Inspiration Board 3

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He says: A Standard Banquet Package (Part II)

When I was considering my banquet package, these are some of my thought process:

3. Choice of wedding favors

Wedding favors are the gifts for your guests during the wedding banquet. Some of the common ones from hotels are chocolates (so common!), fruit cakes, key chains and even chopsticks. Now this is one of the stuff u can really bargain for. Nowadays more and more couples want to have special wedding favors (things that are more useful, things that you can remember the couple by), and often, the hotel’s selection just don’t cut it. For us, we wanted to have our own wedding favors and since Hellen’s dad can help us in this, we decided to bargain for other perks. If you are satisfied with the hotel’s favors, it is good to take it. You can try bargaining for extra room stay, helper’s room, projector waiver, etc if you want to get your own favors.

4. A specially designed X-tiered dummy cake for display on stage for cake cutting ceremony. A genuine cake will be given at the end of the dinner

For mine, it is 5-tiered. I am not too particular about the cake, although I think Hellen is. It is common to have a dummy on stage and one layer (normally the top) delivered to your suite at the end of the dinner. I will recommend you to buy or made one specially if you have a lot of money to spend and you are very particular about the cake. It depends on you, really.

5. Complimentary one night stay at the Bridal Suite or Hotel Room

In my humble opinion, this is one thing to really bargain and fight for. One night stay just does not cut it. Reason: You are super exhausted after your banquet… most probably you won’t be able to enjoy sex too much… let alone you have the additional stress of paying up the next day.. and the stress of counting your ang bao… ahhhhhhhh!!!! Just get 2 nights so that you have more time to do the mundane stuff (I mean counting the money! Not the other thing…)

How important is wedding night sex? Well, I came across this article (http://www.reuters.com/article/pressRelease/idUS143632+13-Oct-2008+PRN20081013) on a Brides.com survey. Here an interesting excerpts:

In order to make the wedding night sex even more memorable, most brides (92%)
plan to sleep in separate beds the evening before their nuptials, with many
(42%) intending to halt sexual activity well before they head to the altar. Of
those planning a bedroom hiatus, a majority (53%) expects to abstain for a
month or longer.

So I guess it is a general consensus that the wedding night is real important.. so bargain for 2 nights stay! No regrets and best advice from your love guru, Kiongster!

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He says: Road Trip!!!

Just a short post today..

I went for a wedding road trip with Hellen! We took our Vesak Day off today and went around to various places to take a look for our impending wedding.

We met a few of our potential actual day photographers and Holy Matrimony Venues. It was a very fruitful day as I spent it with my loved one for a common cause and we came to similar decisions.

Here’s a list of people and places we went:

1. Feldberyl Photography

2. 39 East Photography

3. Fort Canning

4. Burkill Hall, National Orchid Garden

5. One Rochester

While we have decided on our pre-wedding shoot and banquet location, I am sure our actual day photographer and HM venue will be decided soon too.

Thank God for the wonderful day! Amen!

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He says: A Standard Banquet Package

I am not a wedding planner or guru, but my little experience of negotiation and finding out stuff from the internet, I can give my thoughts on what to look out for in a banquet package. (Disclaimer: My comments are not exhaustive, if I missed something out, I will update again at a later time)

Now these are the things you will normally get for standard wedding banquet:

1. $XXX++ per table with minimum table requirements

2. Free flow of soft drinks and mixers for ~4 hours throughout the banquet

3. Choice of wedding favors

4. A specially designed X-tiered dummy cake for display on stage for cake cutting ceremony. A genuine cake will be given at the end of the dinner

5. Complimentary one night stay at the Bridal Suite or Hotel Room

6. Complimentary invitations cards for up to 70% of confirmed attendance

7. Complimentary cars passes for guests based on 20 – 30% of confirmed attendance

8. Wedding decorations of stage backdrops

9. Floral centrepieces for all dining tables

10. Wedding fanfare with misty effect (dry ice effect) for the bride and groom’s march in

11. Corkage charge waived (or a special charge is indicated)

12. 2 VIP parking lots in front of hotel’s entrance for your bridal and family cars

13. Stylish guest book (poster) for guests to sign-in

14. An intimate dinner at the hotel restaurant on your first anniversary

These are all the usual things, give and take, that you can obtain for a standard wedding package. I will speak briefly on item 1 – 2 and what I looked out for.

[1]: Do note that the table amount is with ++ and make sure you get the nett value to avoid miscomm. The ++ will normally include GST and Service charge… which will add up to an additional 1.1777%. So do your own necessary calculation. Depending on the size of the ballroom, there will be a minimum table number requirements. For the weekend, since it is more popular, they will be a higher number of minimum table requirements than the weekends. One of the first things to do before sourcing for a banquet location is to decide on the approximate size of your guest-list. Different hotels cater to different customers, with some handling bigger banquets while other specializing in intimate smaller banquets.

I intend to hold about 25 tables.. so my list of banquet candidates was already limited from the start. But rest assured that in Singapore, there are big and small ballrooms and there is definitely one that will meet your needs. Good big ones include Ritz-Carlton, Shangri-La, Meritus Mandarin, and the best mid-sized to small ballroom will be Raffles Hotel, Four Seasons. Conrad is considered mid-sized to me.

[2] Free flow of soft drinks is a bare minimum requirement and should definitely be there. If it is not, this is something you must get. I can’t imagine any package not having that though…

Due to the lack of time, I will update this again… adios!

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She says: Tips on outdoor wedding

Among all of the many decisions being made about your upcoming nuptials, choosing where to hold the reception is one of the most important and time sensitive. Before you do decide on flower arrangements or dinners, you have to figure out where you would like the reception to be. Outdoor weddings under a pop up tent are becoming increasingly popular for those summer weddings.
Think about the last wedding you attended and remember what made you feel comfortable and what fun ideas stuck out from other weddings. Planning any type of reception is no small matter, moving it outside is no different. The best place to begin is by getting a pop up tent or canopy tent for all of the guests to gather under.
Renting an instant canopy is crucial when planning an outdoor wedding reception. While the majority of outdoor canopies provide a spacious yet personal touch to the whole outdoor wedding theme. A quality pop up canopy will provide some well needed shade from the summer sun as well as protect your guests from unfavorable weather conditions.
Here are a few of the more popular outdoor canopies that you may want to take a look at before making a decision:
• Party canopy – This particular pop up tent is a lightweight tent designed to protect from both the sun and rain. Installation is easy, and inexpensive to rent in comparison to other types.
• Pop up canopy – Another lightweight tent with collapsible-frame fabric. Installation is also easy.
• Frame tent – Frame tents are a basic instant canopy with a metal frame and no center poles.
• Tension tent – The tension tent is built with high center poles and a steeply sloped ceiling. The high ceiling gives off a more open feeling.
• Pole Tent – Using poles around the perimeter and in the center, the pole tent is practical for poor weather conditions.
The size of the pop up tent is quite important in terms of how you plan on it being used. There’s no harm in renting one slightly larger than you actually need. Keep the size of the pop up canopy in mind and when planning how your guests will be seated. Don’t forget to figure in the bar area, cake table, band area buffet tables, and dance floor.
Color of the pop up tent also plays a large role in the type of wedding reception you’re planning. The traditional color for outdoor canopies is white. However, you can easily find a canopy tent in a wide variety and combinations, depending on the theme and mood of the wedding. An example I like to use is a romantic wedding underneath starlit night sky would be perfectly complimented with a translucent ceiling pop up tent.

We are in the mood of outdoor wedding! I found good tips on preparing an outdoor wedding and I would like to share them with you along with the pics:

Among all of the many decisions being made about your upcoming nuptials, choosing where to hold the reception is one of the most important and time sensitive. Before you do decide on flower arrangements or dinners, you have to figure out where you would like the reception to be. Outdoor weddings under a pop-up tent are becoming increasingly popular for those summer weddings.

Think about the last wedding you attended and remember what made you feel comfortable and what fun ideas stuck out from other weddings. Planning any type of reception is no small matter, moving it outside is no different. The best place to begin is by getting a pop-up tent or canopy tent for all of the guests to gather under.

Renting an instant canopy is crucial when planning an outdoor wedding reception. While the majority of outdoor canopies provide a spacious yet personal touch to the whole outdoor wedding theme. A quality pop-up canopy will provide some well needed shade from the summer sun as well as protect your guests from unfavorable weather conditions.

Here are a few of the more popular outdoor canopies that you may want to take a look at before making a decision:

(Roll over your mouse to see what tent/canopy are they)

• Party canopy – This particular pop up tent is a lightweight tent designed to protect from both the sun and rain. Installation is easy, and inexpensive to rent in comparison to other types.

• Pop-up canopy – Another lightweight tent with collapsible-frame fabric. Installation is also easy.

• Frame tent – Frame tents are a basic instant canopy with a metal frame and no center poles.

• Tension tent – The tension tent is built with high center poles and a steeply sloped ceiling. The high ceiling gives off a more open feeling.

• Pole Tent – Using poles around the perimeter and in the center, the pole tent is practical for poor weather conditions.

The size of the pop up tent is quite important in terms of how you plan on it being used. There’s no harm in renting one slightly larger than you actually need. Keep the size of the pop up canopy in mind and when planning how your guests will be seated. Don’t forget to figure in the bar area, cake table, band area buffet tables, and dance floor.

Color of the pop up tent also plays a large role in the type of wedding reception you’re planning. The traditional color for outdoor canopies is white. However, you can easily find a canopy tent in a wide variety and combinations, depending on the theme and mood of the wedding. An example I like to use is a romantic wedding underneath starlit night sky would be perfectly complimented with a translucent ceiling pop up tent.

Source: http://www.articlesphere.com/Article/Planning-the-Perfect-Outdoor-Wedding-Reception-with-Outdoor-Canopies/171440

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He says: 12 years ago

12 years ago.. it was the year 1997, and I was still a young chap at 16 years old.  I was preparing for my O Level’s and as usual, my parents told me to follow them to my distant cousin’s wedding banquet. The thing is, I am not really close to that cousin, or that family.. but I will just follow them. Cos I like to attend weddings, mainly for the good food, even though I don’t know most of the people there.

I have been to several weddings already… although I have never been a big part of any of them. I am a single child and I won’t have the privilege of helping out closely in any sibling’s wedding. So in a way, I do feel a sense of loss when I see other families being heavily involved in a wedding.

To me, a wedding was an event to enjoy good food and be part of a joyous occasion. Maybe that’s why I like going to it.. I don’t find it a chore, and it is another avenue for me to feel like I belong to a big family when in actual fact,  I am an only child. On that day, I was told I am going to Conrad hotel. To me it meant nothing really… since I am not conscious of what is considered a good hotel and what is not.

I just recall that stepping into the ballroom was a wonderful experience. I remembered the grandeur of the ballroom and I felt small in it. The service was great and although I don’t remember the food, I knew I was served well. The lighting and ambience was incredible.. and even though I did not remember any details… I knew I loved the place. That’s why after so long, 12 years later, I still remember Conrad.

When I was speaking to Catheryn recently about holding our banquet at Conrad, she revealed an interesting information to me. She told me she have been planning weddings in Conrad since 12 years ago… and in my mind I was thinking: She could have been the one who planned my cousin’s wedding!

I never told her what I thought, but I was feeling assured that maybe, the same person that orchestrated the wonderful memory I have before, is going to do it again for me. Therefore, I am confident that anyone who attends our wedding will remember it for all the right reasons.

13 years later, in 20 Jun 2010.. there will be another memorable wedding (for the right reason) in Conrad. And I hope it will be another great memory and experience for a little boy or girl who is attending my wedding, just like I did.

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He says: Announcing our Banquet Venue – Conrad Centennial!

And now… for the moment you are waiting for… It is time to announce the coveted hotel that is going to hold our wedding… (Drum roll, pls… brururummm….)

It is CONRAD CENTENNIAL HOTEL!

A short intro on Conrad, as per Wikipedia -

“Conrad Hotels is an international brand of upscale luxury hotels and resorts owned and operated by the Hilton Hotels Corporation. Along with The Waldorf=Astoria Collection, Conrad hotels are considered the luxury flagship brand in the Hilton Family of Brands, named after company founder Conrad Hilton.”

“Conrad Centennial Singapore (Chinese:港丽酒店) is a hotel located in Millenia Singapore, Marina Centre, Singapore. The hotel has 507 guestrooms including 25 suites, and 31 floors with two basements. The hotel’s carpark is shared with Millenia Walk. Conard Centennial shares the same laundry services with sister hotel, The Ritz-Carlton Millenia Singapore. Both hotels are owned by the same owner, Pontiac Land (founded by the Kwee family).”

Conrad Hotel under the Singapore Night

 

Grand Lobby

The pictures on the very top shows the hotel under the Singapore night and the pic above shows the Grand Lobby.
 
This hotel only has one grand ballroom for wedding, and the special thing about the tables is that each table holds 12 pax instead of the usual 10. Our banquet coordinator is Catheryn who has been helpful and cater to our every needs professionally in our discussion with her thus far.
I am partial to this place as the wedding I attended (maybe 8 – 10 years ago) here still sticks to my mind. Hence I have always wanted my wedding to be held in the same place too… so in a way I have absolute confidence that holding my wedding will be a blast!
 
It is centrally located between Suntec and Millenia Walk,  but surprisingly, not a lot of people I know heard about this hotel. I will try to showcase more of this hotel, and hopefully my experience here will be a wonderful one.

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